Reflections on my kids

Warning:  This may appear as bragging on my kids, but I truly am just reflecting on them and the people they have become.

 I am amazed at my children. They are everything I could never be.

My son has a determination beyond any I ever had. He has a kindness and empathy for people and shows himself a true and loyal friend...even when his kindness is repaid with far less. He does not hold grudges although in all fairness, he could have reason to do so. He is intelligent and has developed his own views based on what he himself has studied instead of blindingly accepting what others say. His determination to be successful is strong. He can have a conversation with anyone, anywhere! He accepts people as they are and always defends the underdog. His sense of humor always brings sunshine into the room! He truly amazes me.

My daughter has her own mind.  She doesn't follow the crowd...ever...never has. Her morals and standards are based on her convictions of what is right and wrong. She doesn't judge others, although she has very strong opinions and doesn't "straddle the fence" on issues I always have myself. She has compassion for the elderly and sick and truly gives of herself. As a child, and now as an adult, she is one of the most loving, compassionate people I know. Her battle with juvenile rheumatoid arthritis has shown us all her level of perseverance, as has her battle with anorexia. Her desire is to help others who struggle with the issues she has throughout her life. I can't help but wonder how I had a child as exceptional as she.

My youngest daughter makes us all smile! Just being around her brings laughter into the room. I think she is most like me in that she strives to make people happy. She loves her friends and tries to do whatever it takes to maintain friendships. She has fun and brings fun along with her wherever she goes. She has a "follow it through" attitude about tasks and challenges she has faced. Her interests are varied and she  usually excels in what she chooses to pursue...with hard work of course. She has friends that are 5 and friends that are 50 and communicates well with them.

With two children out of the house and one soon to be in college, I find myself reflecting on the people they have become/are becoming. I am certainly made my share of mistakes in raising my children. In spite of my inadequacies, I know they all feel loved and hopefully they believe I did my best. Whatever the case I love them all and am proud of the people they have become!